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Friday, February 09, 2007

my my..here i m again.=)

exercise voyager juz ended n it was a rather gd experience for me lar...shldnt talk much bout this here..cos later get caught n decomissioned..heh..n not everyone is interested...

everyone shld go read sams blog lar..tink its quite interesting..well..was quite thought provoking lar...=)..ur surroundings do change how u look at tings.how u grow up..they can even change ur taste..but ultimately its not solely the surroundings that change u..u change urself lar..u r e one hu gave the green light for urself to b changed..u urself pretty much control ur everyting (sounds a bit idiotic=)..

like for example e one you love breaks ur heart..you can choose to be sad or juz move on..its true that wadever memories you have (surroundings) can make you sad..but ultimately you still have to move on..these memories dont change..but u do..how u look at tings r different now n its this time when u look at tings in a diff light that change how u feel..happy or sad is determined by u ultimately n ur surroundings only makes the choice diff..=)

another pt is about spending time together..well..i dont really agree that hanging out together more means that u will adapt better to each other n finally get together..can means can..cannot means cannot..cannot force cannot to become can..in other words..some tings r juz meant to b...its like no matter how hard u try..sum relationships juz cannot work out..if u put 2 ppl hu hate each other to e core together..they will juz continue to love hating each other..no way will they try to accomodate n love each other..

e reason y ppl r willing to 'try tings out' is because they feel that their relationship is sth that may seem possible..n love contains more than juz liking..eventually they haf to learn to tolerate each other..be there for each other..look out for each other..so by taking the first step to hang out more frequently w each other n finding out more about each other means that both r interested in making this possible if it ever becomes possible..it doesnt mean that

A likes B and B likes A + Spend hell lot of time together = Happily ever after

its more like

A likes B and B likes A + hell lot of more tings = Happily ever after

love is juz so complicated..=)

many tings i dun understand..
y r ppl so secretive bout it?is it really that shameful to haf a gf/bf?shy?
y do so many promises break?i know humans r liars..but then a bit overboard lar..=)
y make promises that ppl cannot hold?
love is blind..but y is it so blind that ppl muz fall into the holes so many times?
y is it that nice ppl ppl dun like not nice ppl ppl like?

haha...well...if ppl r wondering y i m asking all this..cos i really v curious..n e ppl around me all kenna this kinda tings lar...=)

i haf gotten over my part n found my answers..even though i still tink there r no answers to everyting..=)..its juz human..

noting happened to me..but on a side note: parents r gd..b nice to them..=)

we always take our parents for granted..mayb only me..but many times they try to b nice n ask where haf u been..haf u eaten..r u hungry..but we tend to ignore them or even say they r naggy or juz give a v 'i m not interested' ans..we always treat our frens, b it bf or gf or good frens, better than we treat our parents..y?=)..now that we r a lil more independent our parents wun b there to nag at us..is that really gd?or is it better for sumone hu is more elderly to b there to guide us along n for us to fall back on?wad if our parents r suddenly taken away fr us?wads gonna happen to U n ME..will u b lost?will u b sad?or will u act normal n carry on living e way u r living..how bout ur allowance?n sch fees?n ur parents cannot b there to pester you to do spring cleaning..u haf to pester ur siblings to do so..

piece of advice to me n everyone else: dun live to regret. =)

chin talking cock @ 7:50 PM

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